“Oh I Wish she would say it to my face”; “I wish he would say what he really meant” “I wish she would stop lying and be honest” wish, wish wish. I’ve caught myself in the past saying these types of things (heat of the moment) and realizing what good does that serve, none. What am I wishing for? but honestly what am I really saying?
If I analyze what I’m saying is that I’m wishing for someone to be honest and upfront with me instead of beating around the bush, which no doesn’t seem like a bad idea at all; until I analyze it one step further and realize my ATTITUDE behind it. Oh snap, the latina side was showing once again (so guilty). If I “wish” for people to be real with me, I have to give them room to feel comfortable to be REAL with me. That requires me taking a step back, and zipping my lip. The flesh side of me wants to go up to that person and say something that I definitely shouldn’t say, but the righteous woman (working process) makes the decision to pray for that person instead. Pray for the person who said something bad about you, pray for the woman who rolls her eyes at you but never forget to pray for yourself too. What goes around, doesn’t have to come back around. If we do what’s been done to us, Are we REACTing or ACTING out. My challenge for you is to REACT by praying and ACT by having no action at all (bite your tongue if you have to). A women who values her words is a waring women.
Much Love, Cristina. #AWomenWhoWars